When we see somebody uncomfortably trying to make a point, we can feel as embarrassed – for them - as they are. We silently want them to get through the other side of whatever it is they're trying to convey. But when we do that, we focus more on them experiencing relief than the point they try to make. So, even if somebody struggles or fumbles to do so now, you may need to ensure listening replaces sympathy briefly. View your free weekly destiny video.