'If you think you're perfect, you're annoying to those of us who are.' That slogan adorned many T-shirts in the '70s. You're unlikely to claim to be perfect but might see what's best for someone. However, your efforts to persuade them could make you appear 'holier than thou.' So, rather than point out where they go wrong, focus on what they do right. That's how you'll get them listening. View your free weekly destiny video.